A man and Woman can never be friends forever!

I know you know what i know, that i know what you know but honestly, you know nothing about men and its impossible to know a women. 

This post is not to hurt any sentiments of people, animal, lovers, BFF (Best friend forver) and readers or is not defining the relationship between men and women so kindly do not panic. And yes men are not Pigs! Lets Start the journey...

This is going to be rude, naked and real so kids stay away from this post. And dear readers please don't over-judge my character after reading this post. Women will like it and even men will because i am gonna tell the whole truth, if you can't accept it never mind i am not here to make you believe it in fact i am here to present it. 

"No offense please"

Why did Lord God caused deep sleep to fall on Adam?

18. "Its not good that men should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him" and the Lord God said.

19. Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. And whatever Adam call them. And whatever Adam called each living creature, that was its name.

20. So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him. 

21. And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place.

22. The the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into woman, and He brought her to the Man. 

23. And Adam said: "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of the Man."

-Genesis 1,2 The Holy Bible

Frankly! Adam was happy when he was all alone with cattle and birds, he was enjoying freedom. Well he couldn't help and rest is history.  

So now we are here but what is the meaning of life? Why are we here? What did Adam and Eve did all time?

Philosophers have thought carefully about that questions for centuries. The answer is disappointingly simple: Mating. 

Heaven is supposed to be a reward for a job well done. And whats our job? "Be Fruitful and multiply." We are here to mate and procreate. That's it. That's the meaning of life. Mating. 

If you have any other meaning please let me also know that.

Whats the life of VIRUS? 

In the recent condition the COVID-19 virus is spreading so wildly. You need to understand that its not to make people sick. Getting sick is just an unfortunate side effect of its life cycle. A virus exist for one single purpose: to replicate itself. And in the process, its host might get sick, because the virus is doing good job of replicating itself. 

We like to enjoy nature the wild, raw and majestic beauty of nature. isn't it?
But when we take a closer look, its really a big giant mating machines all over their.  That Bird's chirping is a mating call. Animals spend entire lives trying to stay alive and to mate, that's it. They eat, they sleep, they mate and raise their symbol of love. That's the meaning of their lives. 

But we are civilized animals, we are different from all other species, deep down we are just like them. Mating is programmed into our DNA. and that programming always influences our interaction with the opposite gender, whether we like to admit or not. 

Man VS Woman

This will be really a scary truth, man will get hurt so man continue playing games.  And please i am not being gender biased or any type of shit.

By the way, Why do man like to play as female Characters in Games? 

Women like to call man pigs or dogs, because we always seem to want sex. And men call women gold diggers and money-hungry cat because money is important to you. 

Yes! Men always have urge to have sex with as many of young women as possible. This is because of programming that has't changed. Civilization is nothing more than an artificial and very thin layer trying to hide deep primitive urges. That urge is not for the woman which already have relationship with that man under titles like Mother, Sister, Daughter and other such valuable relationship. Sexual urge mostly emerges for untitled relationship and more often for a friend. 

Your mind must be screaming NOOO!!! You can't say for all men like this! Every Man is different!! 

True. All dogs are different but all dogs have something in common that makes them dogs, and make them different from cats. Trouble starts when cats don't realize that dogs are different. Dogs think differently and perceive the world differently than cats do. 

We man don't even miss the chance to F**K the girl down on street in Grand Theft Auto (Game). That's the old genetic program written in our genes which we simply follow.  "Its not Men's Fault"

But why men has such program?
Lot of women died during child birth or got eaten buy a tiger or died from infection during cavemen days. So to manage the survival of human species men were programmed to mate with as many different females as possible to spread their seed. It was not possible for them to know how many females will survive pregnancy and how many of those babes actually grew up.  Meanwhile, those women who actually survived pregnancy were programmed to raise their offspring. Men's job was to make a home for the child and protect it. But later raising kids were not easy as a result humans invented family. It didn't look like the monogamous family we live in today.

But now things have changed. Studies have shown that smart men tend to be better at suppressing their sexual urges than dumb men. Well-Educated men value their relationships more because they understand the many benefit a stable long term relationship brings with it. Meanwhile, uneducated knuckle-draggers, who have nothing and have no prospects for the future are quicker to sleep around, because the instant pleasure of having sex with other women is more important to than the damaging consequences of destroying their relationship.   

Big ***s are to men, what big wallets are to you women. A Sexy Woman can have almost any man she wants, and a rich guy can have almost any woman he wants. 

The girl lets a rich guy bear her and ritually rape her, and she likes it! She finds it erotic! The Huge success of Fifty Shades of Grey was because Christian Frey was a billionaire. Imagine if he was not a billionaire and stayed in Dharavi (Mumbai), then that story wouldn't be sexy novel but an episode of Crime Patrol.

Women are no less interested in mating than men are. Since you play a different role in the process, and you have different programming, you go differently. Your main focus is not to spread seed but to have stability. So you tend to be less interested in having as many different partners as possible. and more interested in climbing the social ladder, to have a bigger and better nest for their offspring.

A woman can become a man's friend only in the following stages: first and acquaintance, next a mistress, and only then a friend."- Anton Chekhov

Well! women know better how to use that primitive urge of men to make them weak and helpless to get their job done. Women usually uses seduction as a tool to get work done from the powerful men. "It's Her Choice". They have weapon and they know how to use they will obviously fire when they need. 

Women can do anything just because they are women

More than 90% of romance readers 

are women. Check the top romance novel on Amazon, most of them have a shirtless guy on the cover, because they are dirty horny story about girl being swept off her feet by one or more billionaire alpha males.There are tens of thousands of books about shirtless billionaire male vampires who can't wait to mate woman. And woman read that shits. Women always like to fantasize about big wallets. They find money erotic. Most books were written by women for women.  

The same old mating instinct that drives a man to want to see as many naked women as possible, drives women to want to fantasize about a guy with as much as money as possible. We men want to spread our seed, and you women want to build a comfortable, stable nest for your offspring.

Of course that doesn't mean that we men don't like money, or that you women don't like sex. Its the priorities that tend to be different. Men are programmed to want sex and women are programmed to want the stability and financial security in relationship so she offers man what he wants. 

A man and Woman can never be friends forever!

Men and women can theoretically be friends but in practice, it doesn't last long or end well. 

Cross- Gender friendships are quite new. For centuries, friendship was considered something you would have with someone of the same gender.  

Most culture believed that there were extreme differences between men and women that made it senseless to try to bridge the gap. Problem is that the line between normal relationship and romantic relationship is difficult defining. 

The cross-sex relationship begins with freindship and last either in love (which we all now what actually is) or won't end well.

No worries we understand it Rahul

According to a study published in 2012 Journal of  social and personal relationship, even friendships that are confirmed to be strictly platonic are actually not really. The fact is that between the sexes, there will always be a sexual tension. The line between what makes you a friend, versus what makes you a boyfriend or girlfriend is blur. If understanding how to attract people and how to understand whether or not they are attracted was so simple and clear, it wouldn't be constant struggle throughout the whole of humanity. 

Life is easier when you face it together with your partner.